dating project

i would like a dating platform built that includes phpbb3 forum full integration (other if want smf, mybb etc) member gallery integrated stand alone chat room video messenger payment solution profile page that can be customised with maybe 20 fields. in house mail system full searching ie man, woman age etc other fun dating type activities central activity page advertising/banner system flash to be avoided if at all possible must be able to import a dolphin 7 DB for low sql overhead able to handle 500,000 + users further details upon request