Customizing the website with wordpress

I have install wordpress application on my host but now I need my custom site (template) to work together. It should not display wordpress anywhere on the site, because we want the same look as our template. Comment section: Comments display should be like this page [login to view URL] 1. I want visitors to be able to leave a comment in any one of my postings. 2. They are require to input their name and email, in addition they can also have the option to be notify of followup comments via email by clicking the checkmark box. Here is a sample: [login to view URL] 4. Once visitor submits their comment, it would say something like "your comment is awaiting for approval". 5. I want the comments to look like this page that includes their name, date, and picture. [login to view URL] Contact section: I need a contact section similiar to this page [login to view URL] Buttons: I also want to include the add-on buttons so that visitors can add myspace, facebook, etc. Final note: You need to know how wordpress works and need to have previous experience with them.